Plus size women fashion tips: Looking good in lingerie – Part 2

Very Very soft lights…candles are preferable.

It is not the lingerie that is the problem it’s the spider veins and the folds of fat that won’t tuck in and the idea that your spouse or other would even want to see you in a piece of lingerie.

That is when you know a person loves you for what you look like is when they can get aroused by the sight of you in lingerie. I thankfully am that lucky.

It sure took alot of brow beating to try on lingerie anyways. You just gotta find the one that makes you feel the most covered up and the most sexy. It’s your comfort range that has to be assessed not theirs.

It is no different than shopping for pants or shirts, mind you a little more traumatic but no difference, you still have to try it all on look in a mirror and decide if you can be comfortable in it.

Lingerie also has to be something that makes you feel like your a princess even if just in the moment and good lingerie shops that want your income and sell to obese women should be very helpful in helping you assess your style.

Buy only what your comfortable in and what you feel you personally can get away with. I have an obese friend who loves wearing lingerie under her clothes, granted I have worn a piece or two myself but never usually a whole outfit under my clothes it would be to much clothing for me, but hey if that is where her comfort zone is I say,…you go girl!

I digress, as usual, The only tip there is for heavy women looking good in lingerie is go, try it on, and find the one you think shows off all the stuff you want it to. Life is to short to live in fear, don’t be intimidated it can be fun.