What Guys Love About Girls: the Deciding Factor That Men Really Like About Women
You know that there are some women who just seem to be successful with men. They’re the ones who have little to no difficulty in attracting attention from the men that they WANT attention from. And usually, they have no difficulty in KEEPING those men attracted to them, too.
Well in this article, I’m going to divulge the most important thing that those women do. It is the quality they possess that all guys LOVE
Something you may have noticed about these women that they’re not necessarily the most beautiful, brilliant, or best-dressed, either.
And you know what that proves? Something you’ve probably been told many, many times before (but haven’t really believed): that THE EXTERNALS AREN’T THE IMPORTANT THINGS.
It’s not LOOKS that count.
It’s not a great job, either.
It’s not a huge social circle or glittering social life.
And it’s not a beautiful house or perfect holiday home.
It doesn’t matter how rich you are or what kind of car you drive.
None of these things make a hell of a lot of difference to men – I mean, if they’re dating someone who just happens to have one or more of these things, then great. What a fun bonus!
But none of them are the DECIDING FACTOR.
I’ll tell you what the deciding factor is. The knowledge that YOU are enough in yourself to attract any man you want, it’s called SELF-CONFIDENCE, and men LOVE it.
Here’s a basic truth for you: you attract to yourself what YOU think you deserve. If you’re a confident woman who KNOWS that she deserves the best, then the best is exactly what you’ll attract to yourself.
Why?
Because self-confidence isn’t something you can hide from ANYONE. People can tell what sort of a value you place on yourself. And it’s this value – your own worth, AS YOU SEE IT – that “teaches” other people how well they should treat you.
So, if you know you deserve the best – really, truly KNOW it – then the best is what you’ll get. On the other hand, If you expect to be treated poorly, then YOU WILL BE.
You can’t hide what you think about yourself – it always shines through. And that self-belief is what decides how OTHER PEOPLE treat you, too
Let me give you a hint. A confident woman knows she doesn’t need to try to impress anybody. She knows she’s “good enough” just the way she is. So she never jumps through hoops, plays along with head-games, or tries to win ANYBODY’S approval.
And this is a powerfully attractive way to act! Women who are SELECTIVE – who have their own standards, who think about whether men are good enough for THEM – are in demand. They’re intriguing, mysterious and ATTRACTIVE.
Now, I’m not trying to tell you to act like a snooty little princess, or to be super-picky and require men to bend over backwards for you because that’s hardly mature behavior, is it?
What I’m trying to say is that men find you much, MUCH more attractive when you place a high value on yourself, and ACT ACCORDING TO THOSE STANDARDS.
For example, if a woman with high self-confidence and a high self-worth suspected that the man she was seeing was seeing other women, too – and if that wasn’t something she was happy with – then she wouldn’t beat around the bush, or get upset.
She’d say, very calmly, something like, “It seems to me that you might have a different idea of the parameters of this relationship than what I do. If we’re going to be intimate, then I expect exclusivity – otherwise, I’m not interested in pursuing this further.”
No threats. No crying. No raised voices or immaturity.
Just a simple statement of fact: if you’re not prepared to give me what I expect as a minimum standard of behavior, then I’m not interested in you.
Respecting yourself, knowing what you want, and communicating that to the men in your life: THOSE are the secret weapons of attractive, “man-successful” women.
Don’t worry if you don’t know automatically how to behave in this powerfully attractive way. It’s not something that you have to be born with. You can LEARN how to be unshakeably confident, and learn how to apply it to your dates and relationships in a way that’ll have you reaping instant rewards. Just learn it. Good Luck!
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How to Get a Girl to Like You-5 Things That a Girl Wants in a Man
1. The Material or the Possessions of a Man
No matter how this may be controversial, girls will most likely be interested in a man who has some means of taking care of them. Well the degree of how much is acceptable to a girl again depends on the individual girl. The extent of a girls want for a financially stable man could actually be a measure of distinguishing between a gold digger and the genuine ones.
The bottom line here is that as a man you should expect the woman to want you to prove you have at least enough to take care of her needs. Where else some girls may insist on you having just enough, others will only go for the wealthy and if there is someone else wealthier than you… well too bad.
2. The Mans Influence, Power and Status
Before we discuss this need, we need to understand that a girl’s expectation of a man’s status is influenced by their need to fell secure. A woman looks for that man that commands some if not absolute power among his peers, profession and life in general. The reason simply being that the more powerful the man the better they will be able to take care of her.
Nature has programmed the woman to secure the best possible mate in terms of strength, power, domination and all. Look at the animal kingdom for example, a female often chooses the most powerful male to mate with. Yes guys it’s no different out here in man world. Luckily, as a man we don’t have to physically fight off other males to win mating rights.
3. Reputation and Fame
While a man’s reputation and fame plays a vital role in a girls desire to date you, it’s not a universal trait. Its easier to actually say that being famous cuts the work you would have put trying to date a girl by half. Girls are attracted by fame like butterflies are to a lit bulb. My guess is that if someone is famous, it’s easier for the girl to identify with that attribute.
It kind of explains why the football players in your high school seemed to attract all the girls to them. Especially the ones that had looks that could pass as good. Well since not all of us were or are football players in high school, girls don’t necessarily insist on you being rich and famous. In any case not all of us can be famous and that’s why fame is not ideally a prerequisite to a girl agreeing to date you. Phew!
4. A Man’s Looks Count
Forget the tale of the beauty and the beast. Every girl is interested in a man’s looks. The handsome ones get taken so fast that it’s dazzling. It’s important to know your strengths and weaknesses in your looks and try to do a thing or too. Since most men don’t have a face to write much about, I included (no offence); one needs to compensate with good glooming, nice clothing and generally being clean, suave and neat.
I have done this experiment and found that even I am attractive to women when I have worn my best thread. The occasional put purposed gaze you get on the street say enough about the importance of a man’s outlook. It’s important however not to over do it.
5. A Man’s Personality
Most girls are attracted to men with a strong personality. Desireable personalities include being courteous, polite, firm yet sensitive and above all considerate. Most men however confuse having a personality with being headstrong and egotistic. Our biggest undoing is our ego. If a girl does not point it out early and agrees to date you, you can rest assured this will be recipe for disagreements later.
Some of the most desirable personalities that are crucial in the first weeks of attracting a girl include having a sense of humor, being creative, showing some intelligence and most importantly being romantic. Romance is an important personality trait that a girl especially looks for in any man. The more romantic the more adorable they are to the girl.
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How to impress a girl
Boys generally want to impress the girl on their first date. They wear their best. Put on some perfume to tickle the nose of the girl and make themselves look good in every possible way they could. Although most boys who are going on their first date are nervous and edgy, they must try to relax in order to make the first impression one that is good, Girls are easy to please but hard to gain their trust. A boy who wants to impress a girl on the first date must show that he is a gentleman and one that could be trusted.
Girls usually don’t look at the boy’s handsome looks but they look deeper into the personality of the boy they are dating. Girls don’t want to be fooled by good looks because they think that good-looking boys usually have a lot of girls in their list. It is best if a boy doesn’t concentrate on how he looks but pay attention more on how to entertain the girl and make the date fun and exciting. If the boy is smart enough, the girl would show signs that she is interested in another date. But if the boy played stupid on the first date, then the girl will pretend to yawn and let the boy say goodbye.
Girls do not like boring guys. They want guys who could make them laugh. They want boys who are good conversationalist and someone who could share their views about something. Boys though should not be too confident in themselves and try to boast of things they know when they are trying to have a conversation with the girl. Try to be smart but not boastful. Girls hate braggarts. They like guys who are smart but who do not boast about their knowledge.
If you date a girl for the first time, it is important that you maintain a pleasant conversation with her. Do not try to impress a girl by telling about the girls whom you have dated. Never tell her that girls are all running after you. If you do that you might end up sitting alone at the end of the dinner. Be a gentleman and keep your date entertained but not ired.
Some boys who go on a first date try to win the girls heart instantly and asking for a kiss before parting. It is your first date and you must give your girl a time to decide whether she is interested in having the next date with you. As much as possible, do not ask for a kiss on the first date. Girls who are conservative might not accept a second date with you.
The first thing that a girl looks for in a guy is his being gentleman. Most girls want their man to treat them with respect and make them feel important. Girls love guys who could make them laugh and enjoy the night. Whoever is your date, try to take things at a time and do not try to rush the girl. If you really interested in the girl. Ask her for a second date to know more about her but don’t ever rush her and beg her to bestow you her yes.
Sex with random individuals
Is it okay to have sex with random individuals, like your next door neighbour, anytime you like?
Discuss.
